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thenewgreen  ·  4351 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Makes You Happy?

1. wringing sweat out from my shirt after a run 2. Making music with friends 3. Hearing my new name spoken, "Daddy" 4. stepping outside to smoke a cigarette (a now dormant "happy activity")

taken from a previous post What are the little things in life that make you happy?





BLOB_CASTLE  ·  4350 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think having a family of my own one day will help a lot. To unconditionally love and to be unconditionally loved by a child sounds so perfect.

thenewgreen  ·  4350 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It is a wonderful thing, no doubt about it. But I would advise anyone to first be happy and comfortable in their own life prior to bringing another one in to the world. Having a child to become happy is a bad idea.

BLOB_CASTLE  ·  4350 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Very very good advice. I can assure you I will take that mote of wisdom with me into adulthood.