As fucked up as that is, algorithms tend to do that as a matter of course. Capitalism tends to do that as a matter of course.
A lot of the time we aren't willing to accept how much how human life really is a cult of beauty in some sense. Every young person with body image issues, all the magazines and TV shows in the past.
Where do we help people not collapse under the weight? Just by not giving a fuck? BTW fuck TikTok, I only use it to troll people and act like a derelict. It took me until 20s until I stopped giving a fuck what I looked like, beyond hygiene of course.