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lil  ·  2066 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: March 27, 2019

bf likes talking on the phone and texting more than I do, but we probably like each other about the same. Have you talked to her about it?





blackbootz  ·  2065 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I had a long phone call after a bunch of frustrating text messages. That was supremely helpful. That led to an in-person conversation that was honest. I told her all the above, and it didn't scare her away. We have more plans to see each other.

Honesty, as ever, is the best policy. That and in-person conversations.