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user-inactivated  ·  1986 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why are Young People Having so Little Sex?

Are shared living spaces where people share a bedroom, or just sharing a house? I've seen in movies, American dorms etc where people are sleeping in the same bedroom and that always weirded me out. Having to have times you could be there so someone else could get their freak on just seemed odd.





user-inactivated  ·  1986 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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user-inactivated  ·  1985 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Interesting - I haven't encountered that kind of issue when living with people and bringing someone else home. Or if the issue was there, I was entirely oblivious to it. I've been exceedingly lucky with my flatmates over the years.

You paint a scary picture and I don't doubt it's real - I'm just glad it's not happening to me at the moment!

user-inactivated  ·  1984 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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illu45  ·  1986 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Usually just shared common areas (kitchen, living room etc.) although the walls between bedrooms aren't usually very thick.

user-inactivated  ·  1986 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Ah that's not too bad then. Thin walls are no surprise though. Had to deal with that in my youth too!