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user-inactivated  ·  3004 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Our parents discovered leisure. We killed it: The consequences of monetizing your bliss

In another category but in similar place:

'Makes me smile'

'Can make me laugh'

If I had a penny for every time...





kleinbl00  ·  3004 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Men's health asserted in 2000 that if you could get a woman to laugh, you could get a woman to sleep with you. Not that there's a direct line between A and B, but sharing humor is sharing intimacy and the ability to connect well enough to disarm someone to laughter is a useful ability when flirting and establishing romance.

No one wants to be intimate with someone they can't be at ease with.

user-inactivated  ·  3004 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I have no doubt of the validity of that. Perhaps it's just the scope of my looking glass, but such a general statement seen from profile to profile... I thought that'd be a given. In fact, I'd be surprised if/how any genuine intimacy could ensue without humor, laughter, what say you.

I can relate to seeing a lack of variation with online profiles...