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nobodycares · 3546 days ago · link · · parent · post: Has anyone here that was adopted ever contact their biological parent? Or vice versa, a parent that was contacted by their biological child. How did that go?
About five years ago I wrote a letter to my biological parents, (separately) neither of them responded.
someguyfromcanada · 3546 days ago · link ·
How did you find them and why did you want to contact them?
How did it feel not to get a response? I would probably feel bad. I am sorry if that was the case. I really wish my sister would want to contact my niece but I guess that is her choice. She seems like a great girl.
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nobodycares · 3542 days ago · link ·
Sorry to respond so late, I don't often check replied comments.
I felt completely unwanted. But my grandmother who took care of me for many years made me feel otherwise. THAT made me feel like I don't need them. Why would I want to meet them? They don't know how to be parents. Good ones at least. I haven't seen them for 16 years and I don't need to see them now.