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rinx  ·  1391 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Please stop trying to get me to do something "because it's sexy."

Hm interesting, I actually really related to her video. She doesn't say her muscles are sexy, just that she is still feminine despite having muscles. And DNBs aren't people who don't work. They are people who spend their life "just trying to be pretty and be taken care of by someone else". If someone doesn't want to work, male or female, if their partner is onboard I'm all for it. But isn't it ok to say its wrong to spend your life trying to be attractive just to attract someone who will provide for you?

goo  ·  1391 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I liked her video too. Rather, this was aimed at those commenting, "Yeah, women need to work out to be attractive!" What? That wasn't the message at all.

Honestly, I'm not sure how to answer your question. Are there not people who just want to provide for someone who is attractive?

rinx  ·  1391 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Ah OK! I never read youtube comments, I thought you were responding to the video and was a bit confused.

As for the second part I'm sure those people exist. But I, personally, don't mind her judging them. I do myself.