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totorox  ·  3421 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How do you find a balance between thinking for yourself and thinking of others first?

You grow up. It's a challenge now because as a young/immature one, you are self centered. But when maturing a good deal the center of your life becomes other people and then your feelings are most satisfied when taking care of others and giving them the space they need.