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b_b  ·  3429 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Have you ever found out that one or both of your parents cheated?

I know the feeling. I had an ex whom I wasn't always faithful to for similar reasons. She always told me she didn't know what was wrong, but that she just wasn't that interested. You can imagine how pissed I was when I found out she was banging everyone but me! Can't say I've ever been that mad about anything. In the end, I think everyone is interested in sex, but not everyone is interested in sex with you. It's personal, no matter what the other person says. My situation was a lot simpler, because it's easy to kick someone out when you're not married and lack children. Yours is much more complex. Best of luck.