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comment by asianicing
asianicing  ·  3184 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Have you ever found out that one or both of your parents cheated?

Before this whole ordeal I was very black and white about how cheating is wrong and one should just leave if he or she intended to cheat. After hearing the reason my father cheated (he was angry about finding out he at the time was the other man and my mom had a boyfriend in a different country) I realized some people just have to do it. It doesn't make the action any better, but it makes it a lot more understandable and I see where you're coming from.