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comment by _refugee_
_refugee_  ·  3236 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: America's struggle

    Some men don't like other men with larger genitals. Some women like tiny genitals.

And here I was thinking that it was wrong to break up with someone for their dick size.

Like, seriously, do you know anyone who started dating someone, had sex, and then decided that their partner's physical body was simply inaccurate, not up to code, and as a result, there was no desire to continue the relationship? Because

1) you're saying personality, compatibility, trust, etc, all don't matter when put up against ONE non-disabling physical characteristic;

2) you're saying that if there is a problem or issue or shortfall in a relationship, basically if there is any perceived shortcoming, what should be done is not talk about the problem, attempt to solve it, and work through it together as a team, but instead the dissatisfied partner should just say "well it's biology," and get the fuck out of dodge;

and

3) you're saying that you actually believe there is some human out there that is going to fit all of your expectations that you have of them aka "the perfect partner." And that therefore it's reasonable to completely end things based on traits generally outside of any person's control because you are certain you will find someone who, despite their same lack of control over their physical traits and appearance, does exist, will cross paths with you some day, will also like you, and that you will also fulfill all their ridiculous expectations.

Like, seriously, any one who says they didn't date someone because of their hair color is lying to you. Or hopelessly stupid. Or both.