you really expect anyone to speak up when you open the floor like that
I have to agree, it's a hell of a lot different to ask someone about their emotional scars. If you're going to do it, you'd better show people that they're not alone in being vulnerable. I have FAR more emotional scars than I do physical ones, I would wager that we all do. It takes a very safe environment for me to discuss them. Hell, I pay someone on a weekly basis for such an environment and it's the best money I've ever spent but it's a fragile level of trust that must exist to divulge such things. This is not a topic to be taken lightly imo.
You're right, sorry guys. When I get home, I'm going to post the most embarassing, cringey most stupid story I have. I have only told one person about it and I'm 60% sure that's why she stopped speaking to me. It also effects me on a pretty much daily basis and it sucks.