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bioemerl · 3600 days ago · link · · parent · post: Also, kids: don't fall in love before you're 32 or so. It's just not convenient.
You fall in love when you fall in love, so far as I am aware. You can't time it, you can't chose it, but you can try to force it to happen. Sounds entirely like a bad idea to me. Live life, make friends, talk to people, and if you meet someone you genuinely like being around, and would like to get down with, go for it. Personally, I view love as something that is an addiction. A per-programmed trap that puts us into holes while raising kids. I have, and will, avoid it at all costs. Too much drama, too much risk, too much lack of benefit. I'm happy with the internet for companionship, with friends and family to live life with, and with having a quiet home where I live on my own.