Yes you did. Saying something in a forum means you had a reason to say it. You may think you're "being reasonable" or "just calming the situation", but you're asserting. You are carving a place in opposition to another person. You can't have it both ways. You can't tell someone how they feel or need to react is invalid then walk away without expecting a response. You didn't know that you asked for something. You still asked for it. Now take off your mask of feigned indifference and listen.
What I got wasn't a response, it was an outright dismissal with nothing behind it. I always welcome discussion on any of my posts, but I did not directly say "I want to discuss this" so I did not expect anyone to respond with "I am not dealing with this today".