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Cumol  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: October 1, 2014

I talked to an advisor at school halfway through my first degree and she helped me a lot. It is weird how baggage from past times can influence your decisions even when you thought that there is no connection.

Fasting a day before the Eid, is it typical for your community? Here it's rather rare to do that





user-inactivated  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yep, pretty typical. This is the first time I'm doing it in a while, though, because we got lucky with the fasting day landing on a Friday. Were it any other weekday I would have opted out.

Cumol  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I actually enjoy fasting with the family in Ramadan, and everyone of my friends in europe thinks its impossible...

"No water for12 hours? I think I would die"

user-inactivated  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Ramadan is my favorite part of the year for lots of reasons, the actual concept of fasting being one of them. I fast of my own accord if I'm feeling really stressed out or feel like I need a sort of reboot of the system.

Cumol  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I like the fact that the family is kinda forced to sit on one table and eat. Usually everyone eats whenever he/she gets home.

I don't do Ramadan in europe. It gets dark at 11pm in germany >< and doing it alone sucks

Never thought to fast when stressed, should try it sometime. How long do you fast for when you do that?

user-inactivated  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Same as any regular Ramadan day, but depending I might allow myself water. It really puts things into perspective for me.

Also I TOTALLY hear you about doing it alone, it's garbage. There a local mosque you could check out to do it? I know mine has community iftars every day of Ramadan.

Cumol  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I never do it out of religious reasons, it is more of a cultural thing for me (ex-muslim here). And sitting there with the (surprisingly, very religious) people from the mosque feels fake to me.

user-inactivated  ·  3892 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Gotcha, gotcha, well yeah screw doing it in Europe then, or pretty much anywhere where the sun doesn't set before 7:00 PM.