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galen  ·  3544 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Unwanted

I don't really have much to offer to the discussion, but I wanted to say a.) regardless of whether or not you're wanted, you're a pretty cool guy, and b.) I feel ya. It's not as much that I feel unwanted with my friends, but I always feel a little bit like my girlfriend's about to break up with me - she'll say something about how we aren't that similar, or seem bored in conversations with me, or just not respond to my texts, and I worry that it means our relationship isn't going well.





caelum19  ·  3543 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Thanks man! I hope things end up alright with you and your girlfriend, if I had one she'd probably drive my absolutely crazy with with irrational worries.

You should try not to worry though, I'm often so pre-occupied with worrying that someone wants me to shut up, I end up forgetting to think about what I say next and then conversation ends up awkward and I feel worse.

    she'll say something about how we aren't that similar
Judging from my parents you don't have to be similar to be in love. :)