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comment by istara
istara  ·  3604 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: When Women Pursue Sex Even Men Don't Get It

The horrible double standard here is that if the woman thinks you're sexy your advances will be welcome, but if she doesn't find you attractive she will possibly consider them creepy.

It's similar to how some people feel "insulted" if someone they consider unattractive approaches them.