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comment by veen
veen  ·  3853 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: When Have You Felt the Most Free?

I think it's as much in autonomy as it is in freedom. Preferably, I always want to choose whether I feel like interacting or not. A friend of mine lives in the apartment next door and he randomly comes by with a cup of coffee to hang out. Most of the times I don't mind but I often just want to be alone and I'm not gonna be the asshole to tell him to leave me alone.