I speak in generalities because this is endemic of social issues and debates far beyond the realm of just this particular thread. I do not name names because while they have relevance to this particular conversation, the things you state are platitudes that are all over the internet and political conversations.

I do not think that "platitudes" is the word you're looking for. I do think that this has been an opportunity for you personally to shed light on an issue you find to be important by giving people something concrete to latch on to, for example texts that you've found to be particularly enlightening.

Go ahead and generalize, but I don't think that waving a moralistic stick will help people to understand your point of view. People can only work with what they've experienced themselves, so while your anecdotal examples might well be true, I (and other readers of this thread) can't access those experiences to see why you've responded to this thread in this way.

The term "rape culture" can't be seen as something that's not inflammatory, nor something that is not implicitly accusatory. There's more than one side to this thing and right now I don't get the sense that you're acknowledging that.