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ButterflyEffect  ·  4276 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Real Problem With Hooking Up: Bad Sex

I think the biggest problem with "hooking up" is that it's done mostly for selfish reasons - that you want to have sex. The other person isn't really taken into account, and I think that's the key here.

I'm not a very old person by any means, but I've found that good sex is a result of two people truly caring about the other and hoping that they're enjoying it at a high level, and doing what it takes to make that happen.