BC, yojoy, and IntimidatingScones -- I could be wrong - but I think "wondering if I'm being a good boyfriend" might be a condition specific to the hubski demographic. Maybe boys wonder that in secret, but I've never seen it and I've never had a boyfriend ask me "Am I a good boyfriend? How can I be a better boyfriend?" Never and I've never heard a girlfriend say that her boyfriend asked her that. What I do hear a lot of is men saying, "I thought everything was fine. Why did she dump me? It makes no sense." Ha ha, maybe they should have asked the magic am-I-being-a-good-boyfriend question. Another thing I see a lot of here is men posting pictures of their newborn babies and toddlers, including thenewgreen. Maybe he can tell me who the others are - I know I see baby pix all the time here. It's a brave new world here in our tiny corner of the web.