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ButterflyEffect  ·  4122 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Did Porn Warp Me Forever?

It's something that can be overcome. Porn portrays sex as something that it generally isn't, and makes it very much based on domination or various fantasies. Sex -in a relationship- is much more about the feeling of love, trust, and oneness between the two partners. It is a big adjustment to move over from porn and having sex just to get off, to having it as an experienced to be shared.

If you're worried about the impact on your sexuality, I would advise doing what the author of the article did. Try to "unlearn" your sexuality, stop watching porn for an extended period of time. You could even go as far as not masturbating for a period of time as well to truly start anew.