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ilex  ·  1426 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I told someone off today. In an extremely nasty way.

Yeah, you can't make him learn anything, just offer him something to learn from should he ever decide to.

He doesn't want to talk about boundaries or set consistent ones because it'd require him to admit something about himself he doesn't want to. I doubt he consciously understands that, but no matter. Hopefully someday he gets tired of this and figures himself out!