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kleinbl00  ·  2436 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: August 23, 2017

From the outside? From any side, dude, by saying "I have a group run that night" you're saying "I have a group of friends I would rather hang out with than you and you are not invited." What you're saying is that running is more important than the girl.

Which, okay, know your priorities. But stop pretending it's the girl. Stop pretending that a girl as into exercise as you are would be any different because she'll have her own training plan and her own running group and her own routine.

A relationship is the additive result of a compromise. You're not willing to compromise. Ergo, you are not in a relationship.