but at what point do you ask someone to risk looking like they don't know what they're talking about in order to change the trend? When you are personally secure in your own job/blog/website etc, I suppose you can do what you like, write what you like, and advance your cause.
I do. There are certain spellings that I prefer to others. Spellcheckers do not approve. Most spellcheckers allow us to get around the fascism of spellcheck by having an "add to dictionary" function.
At what cost, at what cost? Civilization has never fallen over a disagreement about how to present ourselves. Although I have read that the bomb fell on Hiroshima due to a mistranslation:
Some years ago I recall hearing a statement known as "Murphy's Law" which says that "If it can be misunderstood, it will be."
People LOVE neologisms. "Bigly" will be a word, I predict, in the next authoritative American dictionary. Oh wait, it was a word in 1485.