I'm sorry, I had to leave to go collect myself for a minute.
As a woman, physiologically, speaking in generalities that are observable and measurable across the population of all women, I inherently am weaker, especially in terms of upper body strength, than any given man.
Not to mention that legally, assaulting someone because they yelled at you or looked at you or encroached upon your personal space or even grabbed your tit does not qualify as "self defense."
Go back to your cave, o11c. I live in something known as civilized society.