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someguyfromcanada  ·  3020 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: If you had the opportunity to remake yourself, would you?

Nice Canadian content there spoons. Yes of course I would. Regrets. I've had a few.

Even if we are generally happy with who we are, we all have things we would like to change. I would not change myself too much. I could not imagine going through the process (?) that you are/have done. I don't even know whether I would have the fortitude.

I would be the same person essentially but change some of the past decisions that have made me who I am. I would have gone to an expensive private school instead of thinking it was just for preppy wimps. I would have gone for quality over quantity and thought more about meeting a long term mate instead of a person to have lots of crazy sex with. I would be more inclined to work within an organization instead of going it alone. I would have never drank (a lot of) booze, done (a lot of) drugs or smoked (a lot of) cigarettes.

I am very content with my interests, morals, etc. but of course there are things I would change/remake. I would hope my morals and my friends would be the same. though