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OftenBen · 3375 days ago · link · · parent · post: Men: Older? School-Age? College-Age?: Do You Ever Ask These Questions?
Maybe 4 and 5. When I was selling insurance I didn't really have coworkers, in school I was just as likely to be let down by female group members as male, and had to take the lead most of the time anyway because of generalized apathy. #4 - I try my best to only judge other people by the actions that I have directly observed. Sometimes by the way that someone I care about relates to them, but I try to take secondhand news with a good measure of salt. #5 - I asked this one too much (Or a variation on it) and got myself into therapy. Now I try and be mindfully loving and not worry about it much beyond that. And I was the person fixated on binaries yes.