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thenewgreen  ·  3168 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How do I deal with my parents' possessive control of me?

    "How dare you hate someone for beating you every time you made a mistake? You should just take it and be happy someone is allowing you to live at all."
-Not sure who you are quoting there, but it's certainly not me.

    to suggest that this is all in his head is condescending and the primary reason children get stuck taking the abuse.
Please show me where I said this was all in his head.

    I also had to pay my way through college, and I now have a phd.
Great.

    You really have no frame of reference here.
If you read the conversation I had with OP you will see that I say as much.