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thenewgreen  ·  4683 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "That's not my salad"
Allow me to chime in as a former server myself. It's neither chivalrous nor sexist, it's simply proper etiquette. The same goes for serving the oldest person at the table first, it's not age discrimination... It's just proper etiquette.