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_refugee_  ·  3523 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what did you learn about yourself from your last relationship?

Thank you for realizing this.

When I get back to DE this weekend I have to have a discussion with someone about why I do not want to continue dating him. (For the record: We have been on three dates. I don't think three dates merits this discussion, but clearly, he does.) I plan on saying "I am not interested in continuing to date you because I do not like you."

Despite this very truthful, very blunt statement, I anticipate that he is going to argue with me. If someone doesn't want to be with you - accept that. Please, for the love of god, people, accept it.