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lil  ·  4323 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: What's in a Name?

    even so, they're not names like we think of; there's no genealogy, there's no history, there's no connection to family. Nothing like that.
That is so true. Although a name like JTHipster probably has a genealogy - by which I mean to say, a story of how it evolved.
    I think the nature of a name is changing.
If the nature of names is changing, perhaps the nature of identity is also changing. I have trouble keeping track of multiple names/identities. I find it very frustrating when my name has been "taken" by someone else. I sometimes have to resort to using a term of affection that people call me (noodledish) and even then, I have to be noodledish22 or some such. The older I get, the more integration I seek. I don't want anyone to say, "Wow are you ever different when your sister, wife, husband, grandmother, or smartphone is in the room." I think thenewgreen is on hubski so much that he has fully integrated tng into his Steven personality. Or have you, tng?




b_b  ·  4323 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Serious statement here. I recently heard him refer to himself as thenewgreen. To his wife.

thenewgreen  ·  4323 days ago  ·  link  ·  

lil, thenewgreen was an enormous part of my life well before Hubski. I remember sounds_sound telling me he would have chosen his name differently if he knew he'd remain on Hubski.

b_b, if I did refer to myself as tng to my wife it was either tongue in cheek or to annoy her. I don't go around referring to myself as such.... Not yet.