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elizabeth  ·  2468 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: July 19, 2017

Ahh the pressure of always be having the time of your life - I'm familiar with that. When you're halfway across the world, burned out and want to lounge around while there is so much going on around - it's hard not to feel guilty. Or feeling grumpy and underwhelmed at some of the earth's 7 wonders. But sometimes we all need a day off! I actually kind of like vlogging because it gives me an excuse to stay in, while not feeling guilty.

I think a big part of it is to go to a place you're actually exited to visit, especially if you're going solo. With friends, you can make any shithole fun but if you're alone and not feeling inspired about the place then of course you'll just stay in. Go for a specific festival, or some museum or hike or whatever you don't have back home. And then, invite people you meet to tag along and let the trip unfold I guess.

Going on the free walking tours, starting up a game of cards in the common room of the hostel, cooking up some snack for everybody, or inviting everyone you meet to a bar (or a hike the next day) are a great way to make friends to make the vacation more memorable.





weewooweewoo  ·  2468 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Thanks for the tips! Hm. I need to go back to the drawing board, I'm kind of realizing I should probably look into working on the relationships I currently have instead of trying to find enlightenment with strangers, or something.