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Goosey  ·  4241 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 10 Reasons You Should Never Get a Job

No doubt he is successful at this. A good demonstration of the power in persuasive writing. Don't feel too gullible.

I own upwards of 30 books which would perhaps be classified as self-help spanning spiritual to psychological to motivational. For years I found myself thrown in different directions depending on what I was currently reading. Gullible doesn't begin to describe it.

Luckily I have good friends who enjoy good discussions and are secure enough to challenge and be challenged. Slowly I'm learning to be less naive. :)

But if something is compelling, like this article, that's a sign that there are useful nutrients which to be extracted. Even something that is 100% hand-wavy nonsense; if it is getting an emotional response that's a very valuable thing. That allows you to ask yourself, "How is this making me feel? Why?"

For example I assert 3, 7, 8, and 10 all lack logical basis, but 3 and 10 were emotional push buttons for me; a way for my subconscious to speak. I do feel overly comfortable/lazy and irrationally cautious about making changes. Ignoring this does me no good. On the other hand 7 and 8 didn't evoke any response. I must be satisfied with my compensation and social life.

Thanks for submitting this article, I've had a lot of fun in this discussion today.





Sparsile  ·  4240 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Ahh yes, naive is the word.

So you've read quite a bit of material already! Yeah discussions are very valuable, as I'm currently discovering.

For me, many of Steve's articles evoke emotional responses. Next time I will pay attention to those emotions more closely, in stead of sucking in his every word like a sponge. My emotional push buttons from that list were 3, 9 and 10.

No problem! I'm enjoying the discussion as well. And becoming slightly less naive in the process!