Hey Devac. There's no flat out advice that I think needs giving, nor any that comes to mind. What I'm reading is there's more to the story and a bit more than simple frustration. If you're willing, I'm more than happy to pop into IRC if you're still up to chat/listen (read). If I don't catch you, then you know how to reach me.
I'm going to piggyback off kantos. I thought I was the only one missing something to the story. I hope that gets sorted if it needs sorting. My apologies if I missed the piece of the story. If you have your own plans that don't involve your father's plans, I'm happy for you. I hope they work out for you. If you're spiting your father's plans because they aren't your own, he may one day not be around to care, but you might be. If it's frustration about something else, I hope you find some peace about it.