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mknod · 3016 days ago · link · · parent · post: Whats up! How is everyone doing on their New Years Resolution?
Hey this is not laughable. I know personally how much not being assertive can hurt both relationships and life goals. It's good to recognize it and try to be self-reflective. You don't have to even be a jerk! You just have to be direct. There is a cliche that I've had to use, but has been helpful. Whenever I feel myself pulling backward toward being passive "Mean what you say and say what you mean" in other words, be mindful of what you want and ask for it. Good luck!