Well see this is sort of what ref was getting at. It's pretty narcissistic to say that you deserve to be respected. I'm not trying to say you're a terrible person or anything, just pointing out that it's this behavior that turns people off. No one has an obligation to be patient with you, but this seems to sort of be what you're expecting, so then frustration ensues for all parties.I suggest you give it another thought, this time giving my problems the respect and space they deserve
I can see how it is now. I believe that everyone should get an equal amount of baseline respect as per the idea of credit of respect. In your opinion, how do I best communicate this idea? Should it ever be vocal, or must it always remain subtle?It's pretty narcissistic to say that you deserve to be respected.
I'd like to learn how to express the idea in the most effective way in most context. I'm asking your advice not for my and ref's sake, but for my own solely. Whether I come to apply it when it comes to ref is irrelevant to message you were replying to, as I didn't put such meaning in it.