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user-inactivated  ·  3187 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Dear Hubski, what do you want to learn?

How to really talk to people.

I'm ok with small talk... It's really all I need for my job. People don't want to get into deep conversation with FOH staff... (That's the barrista's job!)

I find it incredibly difficult to have meaningful conversations with people. At least in person. Give me a laptop and plenty of time to carve out a decent answer and I'm golden.

I suppose it just takes practice. But it's something I desperately want to learn!





user-inactivated  ·  3184 days ago  ·  link  ·  

In what does the difficulty represent itself? Is it that you can't open up to people? Is it that you find others seemingly incapable of having any meaningful conversation?