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user-inactivated  ·  3207 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Polygamists and polyamorists of Hubski, how do your relationships work?

Hmm, I'm stuck in polypurgatory. I blew too much money trying to move to Detroit. So now I have to get help from my Mom. She doesn't want me to wander away until I finish school. I also have had to give up on the dream that I can support a woman or even a boyfriend. I could probably afford to be a lesbian, once I find a good job. For now I am dating someone who can take care of me.

I am a really good secondary. I dated a guy who wanted to live with me, and sleep around, AND not have any of us sleep around. This and his other bullshit, lead to him spreading the herp.

So as much as I would like an island of broken polys, it is a distant dream.

I do have a primary now, who treats me really well. He is good at sex, but he is so vanilla. Super easy to make happy. He isn't a creep, who really wants me to bring home other girls. We disagree about politics, but we are both super passive and chill. Things are hunky dory.

Except the scheduling....

He is so nice in fact, that he is raising his ex girlfriend's son. She after a year wont let him meet me. Really fucked up situation. Not really sure what I did to deserve this. He raises her son and works full time. I clean their house on weekends.

She has a baby, with a guy ten years younger than my boyfriend, and collects public aid.

I think anyone who wasn't poly, would have left the poor guy. Sorry it is not that exciting, right now.