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mk  ·  3289 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: March 25, 2015

I agree with insom's advice regarding the way to play things well. However, my advice would be to take a break from her (don't be rude, just don't engage more than you need to to remain responsive and polite), and take a couple of weeks for galen time. Hang out with other folk you enjoy, and work on a project that you've been wanting to. Take a overnight or weekend trip somewhere if you can.

Whenever you start putting a lot of effort into trying to figure someone else out, you'd probably get better returns getting to better know yourself.