I like SRD, bud. But I'm not enjoying this. Reddit is a clusterfuck of people all asserting their opinions as if they are fact (at times), but trolling and it's poisonous ilk don't do well here, it's a small enough community that members doing so can be completely ignored. Ref isn't trolling, or seeking to get a rise out of you in any way, but is bothered by what she interpreted as condescension, which also doesn't do well here, unless it's completely merited. Granted, that's a fine line, but we all walk it and value those who show self awareness about it. You actually even find people apologizing and coming to an agreement, too. I may have missed some stuff in ya'lls conversation (I am so not reading all of this), but, for the sake of your blood pressure and the stress levels of those around you, I offer this platitude: |PICK YOUR BATTLES WISELY