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user-inactivated  ·  3487 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Mark Epstein, “The Trauma of Everyday Life”

Trauma is all about a single extreme experience that you have that affects you severely. If Buddha was 7 days old at the time, he didn't experience trauma he just grew up without a mother. Yes there are psychological repercussions of such a thing, but that's not trauma.

I can imagine that in the region and time he was alive (~500 BC, India), growing up without a mother was also more common. Most of the psychological problems with children growing up without a mother revolve around the fact that most everyone else they know has one and then wonder what is wrong with them that they do not have a mother, as if they are deficient in some way.

On the Amazon page:

    Mark Epstein uncovers the transformational potential of trauma, revealing how it can be used for the mind’s own development.

Later it even calls it, "Epstein's discovery". This type of knowledge isn't in any way new to be called a discovery.