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user-inactivated  ·  3749 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Amazon Is Killing My Sex Life

All this does is solidify my belief that being alone is far and away easier than ever being in a a relationship.

Or at the very least, that "dating" is significantly far and away easier than being alone.





user-inactivated  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The person you're with should be your best friend. When you're with them, it should feel that way. You shouldn't feel a hint of anxiety or awkwardness before hanging out with them. They shouldn't be necessary for your life, they should complement it very nicely.

Being in a relationship shouldn't be difficult. It should be fun. You two could hang out alone and tie cherry knots, and have a wonderful time. Prearranged dates are incredibly overrated. Movies are the absolute worst--you can't even speak to each other.

Anyway, you'll probably find that person. But only if you open your eyes to see the person who you could share a beautiful relationship with.