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comment by Ivory027
Ivory027  ·  1994 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Stop Saying "I Have A Boyfriend"

The fact that you put the subtext of not interested into "I find you unattractive and uninteresting." is very telling. Just because a girl is not looking for someone at that point in time, does not mean it is an upfront to your character. She doesn't know you, and is not interested in that at that point in time. She is not insulting you, and shouldn't have to validate you just because she had a brief conversation with you.