For me, its the exchange of money that makes me lose respect for what she has chosen to do. By " she chooses how to explore and enjoy her sexuality regardless of the norm", i meant that I think a girl has taken ownership if she chooses to be a "slut"-sleeping around and doing what she wants for her own pleasure. I don't think we are fair in treating women who have had many sexual partners in comparison to guys who act the same way.
Very similar to insomniasexx's perspective. I'm just not on the same page as everyone else on this. I think the exchange of money makes it empowering. She's using our society's shamefaced obsession with porn to pay for a college education. College educations are pretty empowering. So I'm running into trouble reconciling your point about respect with the practical results of her actions.For me, its the exchange of money that makes me lose respect for what she has chosen to do.