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comment by Yossarian
Yossarian  ·  3748 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The ‘How Are You?’ Culture Clash

Sometimes I'm not sure whether someone is genuinely asking how I'm doing or if they just want to hear "fine". It's always awkward when I tell the truth in the latter situation (as long as I'm anything less than fine) and the person is caught off guard and feels obligated to ask why I'm not fine.