I made a mistake, and broke up with my girlfriend last week. Likely getting back together tonight, with a few changes on my end.
1. Be more open (all around)
2. Explore her needs more (all around)
3. Move some workouts and runs to the morning / during lunch breaks to free up evening time for us. Which, I've toyed with this idea relationship-or-not for a while now. It's a logistics nightmare right now, and I try to be good at logistics, so...
We'll see what happens. What I do know is that this year is still chaotic good, and continually only getting worse. "The busy" trap is in full effect, but I like it.