I didn't say it's all women. I said that the reason men feel the way that they do is because of the input they've gotten from women. Some choose to allow this to govern their behavior and so minimize risk that way. Some choose to say 'hang probability' and do what they want anyway, at an increased base risk.
I already admitted that there are indeed women who tolerate having house-husbands. There are men who tolerate women out-earning them. From what I hear and see, this is not a norm.