But valuable enough to change your belief system over ?
Not what's happening, not what I meant in my critique of your statement.
This particular discussion is one expression of a set of larger society-wide problems. Reductive statements like
I don't care how close you can get to some guys favourite porn fantasy sex is not that magical.
create an adversarial environment that need not exist, and put us farther from possibly helpful alternatives. This particular article is about sex, and is a direct reaction to an equally un-nuanced article that is also explicitly just about sex.