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Well, you tend to make long posts lamenting selfishness/need for other's approval/etc. I think what ref is saying is that continuing to self-indulge in these behaviors by constantly posting about yourself isn't healthy, because you know it's a problem yet continue to do it.
Personally I'm glad you have an outlet here to talk about your problems, and it's good to get feedback from peers for self-improvement, but I think ref has a point that you need real-world therapy.